“Love is not written on paper, for paper
can be erased.
Nor is it etched on stone, for stone can
be broken.
But it is inscribed on a heart and there
it shall remain
forever.” Unknown
People everywhere are
hurting from grief and loss. Most do not have any idea how to deal with the
losses that they have suffered. Many try to push on, as if nothing has
happened.
Others turn to maladaptive (self-destructive) behaviors such as
misusing medication, drinking alcohol to excess or taking drugs in an attempt
to escape the pain they feel.
Still
others bury their hurt, anger and grief inside themselves – only to have it
resurface at another time, usually in another form, such as a physical illness or even an emotional / mental
illness.
This picture is my "positive visualization". I had to get a different picture in my mind than one I had after we lost our
son. (Click the picture above for access to a special page.)
It is our hope that the information and ideas we
give you here will empower you to take action for yourself. We hope to help you
to understand the Grief Process and to offer suggestions on ways of dealing with grief.
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NATIONAL SUICIDE PREVENTION HOTLINE
Please call 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
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We also have several new ways to help memorialize your loved ones. Please take minute to see our Jewelry and Bonsai Zokei.
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We also want to
encourage you to seek professional help – when and if needed.
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Here is a link to one of my favorite websites for help in dealing grief and mourning.
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